Collaborators or friends?
One of the issues that one needs to clarify primarily within themselves, is the type of relationship they have with people around them.
Is it a friendship?
Is it professional?
Is it both?
This will help you have clear and honest intentions about them, let go of any guilt-related feelings, and feel free to be as you intended in the relationship.
In the case of friendship, there are degrees in proximity. How comfortable you feel in the presence of the other and also what type of friendship it is. Ideally, a healthy friendship would make you feel comfortable being yourself and not performing what you think the other expects from you.
In the case of professional relationships, I would say make sure you know what you can offer and what you would like to receive. Before you begin working, I cannot stress enough to have written agreements. Maybe it’s an email or a recording on your phone after a mutual agreement to record or any other type of proof.
Entering collaborations with friends can be tricky if you do not protect it. Many times, this is because friends working together think that they do not have to have agreements written down, and this may often result in misunderstandings.
Hug huge
Lia